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Message to my Mother

Sent this to my mom today. Hope it finds you wherever you are: Today I saw the snow falling, soft and steady. It feels like such a gift this year, doesn’t it? With the way the seasons have been shifting, I wasn’t sure we’d see it at all. But there it is—quiet and perfect, blanketing…

What would it look like if you…

A lot of people have trouble seeing past what’s right in front of them. I know I have this problem, and maybe you, or someone you know or care about does too. Some of the most insightful questions that help you see past your current reality could start with this prompt. What would it look…

This week’s 1:1 coaching questions

1:1 meetings are an important part of managing a team. It’s much more important that you realize your team’s potential than drive particular expectations when someone is growing, and so – sometimes doing that requires a bit of iteration and creativity. This week, I tried out some new 1:1 questions into my rotation courtesy of…

Automation with Elgato Stream Deck

Working from home has definitely highlighted how frustrating it can be making sure that all of your peripherals are working together seamlessly when you are about to hold a meeting that you need to go without a hitch. For less than $100, I found a really great hardware solution (the Elgato Stream Deck) that I’ve…

Coaching Questions for Engineering Managers

One of the hardest things to do as an engineering manager is to stop letting what you think is right be the driver of your team. Instead, actually, you have a bunch of perspectives on your team that are all valuable – and they often can formulate their own opinions. As a result, a lot…

Self-Conscious or really, just Self-Critical?

To understand the following, I want to explain three things. First, I’ve been struggling with mental health and maintaining balance since I was a kid. Secondly, I’ve been meditating for a few years now, using a few apps as assistance (Ten Percent Happier, Waking Up, Headspace), and a few podcasts (Ten Percent Happier, The One…

Three weeks off – what is it like?

I think everyone has had a tough time detaching during the pandemic. “Love what you do, and you’ll never work a day in your life” is an old adage that doesn’t apply to these times. Sometimes when you love something, you care too much about it, and that can sometimes lead to empathy burnout. I…

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